Sunday, December 12, 2010

Why she gets the guys.

You see her all the time. The girl with the mediocre looks. There is nothing overtly special about her appearance yet you and anyone else in the room is drawn to her. You ask yourself ” Why her? Why do all the guys swoon over her when I am just as acceptable?.” 
As much as she may look just the same as the girl you wouldnt think twice about when passing on the street, this woman has an edge because she is CONFIDENT.
Confidence is almost just as important as looks now-a-days. I like to think attractiveness is not only physical. I base attractiveness 25% on looks, 25% confidence and 50% personality.
So GIRLS! Be confident! Who will love you if you cant even love yourself. As a plus-sized, attractive, young adult I noticed a DRASTIC increase in the amount of guys giving me attention the second I stopped acting as holly helper to my drunken friends and having fun of my own. 
So whats the secret to sexy? Confidence. Simple as that.